Check out my blog entry "Seeing is Believing" to get a handle on what I am taking about.
IMAGES
The main resources I use for finding images are www.google.com and do a “Image” search and
www.flickr.com. These two sources provide a
very large database for finding pictures for your "Positive Influencing" videos.
I will list some of the pictures I use in my video below. If you would like to
add to this list please email me the link to the picture. You can find the link
by right clicking on the image, looking at the properties of the image and
copying the “Address: (URL)” into your email. Email them to
twemple@thepornographymatrix.com with the subject marked as
“resources.”
Picture Resources - I'm not sure if these images will be large enough. If they aren't try following my instructions in my book's Appendix: "Plan of Attack." At least you will get a good idea of what I'm talking about. I classify these pictures in three different ways; joy and compassion, motherhood and a wife's respect for her husband. The last classification was very hard to find just the right pictures.
www.google.com Image search and www.flickr.com are two of the best resources for finding positive influencing pictures. I have listed below some images I use in my video.http://www.aolcdn.com/aolportal/diana-landmines-400ah083007.jpg
Princes Diana holding a young girl and looking over at another boy who are victims of land mine explosion.
http://blogs.britannica.com/blog/main/wp-content/uploads/2007/08/0000101943-dianap006-0021.jpgPrinces Diana talking to a young boy who is a victim of a land mine accident.
http://www.cbc.ca/arts/images/arts_diana1_392.jpgPrinces Diana holding a young girl who is victim of a land mine.
http://www.ciai-s.net/SimonaPari_Berlusconi_SimonaTorretta.jpgTwo Italian aid workers who were kidnapped in Baghdad. Simona Toreetta smile is contagious.
http://news.bbc.co.uk/media/images/40123000/jpg/_40123168_hostage300.jpgSimona Pari and Simona Terretta
http://www.nuovofriuli.com/photo/2004.09/2004.0911.01.torretta.jpgSimona Torreta
http://www.60019.it/images/notizie/2004/20040909-torretta-g.jpgSimona Torreta
http://img.timeinc.net/time/europe/magazine/2004/1011/hostages.jpgSimona Pari and Simona Terreta
http://www.carmillaonline.com/archives/ansa_5255324_03470.jpgSimona Terreta playing with an Iraqi child
http://estaticos03.cache.el-mundo.net/elmundo/imagenes/2005/05/17/1116328960_extras_ladillos_1_0.jpgAnother Italian aid worker Clementina Cantoni that was held hostage in Afghanistan.
http://www.delo.si/images/iman/2005_05/pb_clementina_20cantoni_20je_20v_20rokah_20kriminalcev.jpgClementina Cantoni
http://www.ilmanifesto.it/pag/cantoni/cantoni_m1.jpgClementina Cantoni with some children in Afghanistan.
http://www.craigandkelly.com/Switzerland-2003/image033.jpgThis is a picture of Kelly Perkins who is a heart transplant survivor and mountain climber. She has one of those radiant spirit filled smiles.
http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1161/529903596_4a9ae61e71_m.jpgA mother’s love by RyBread off of flickr.com
http://farm1.static.flickr.com/154/337740450_c44c5852d2.jpg?v=0I don’t know why but this picture just makes me feel good by rachel r off of flickr.com
http://farm1.static.flickr.com/129/417195788_f70a277810.jpg?v=0A mother holding her child’s hand by Fort Photos off of flickr.com
http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2122/2255990403_a560c1e87c_m.jpgThis is a husband and wife by ~teewinot~ off of flickr.com
http://farm1.static.flickr.com/61/179257594_6fc85377fb_m.jpgLoving husband from alicet88 off of flickr.com
http://farm1.static.flickr.com/47/143576924_778771ac29_m.jpgI love this man by scotties77girl off of
flickr.com
MUSIC
Apple iTunes are an obvious choice, but I
use amazon.com for my music. You can buy a small MP3 player now days from
Walmart for about $40.
I’m not going to give you a whole lot of music choices here because everybody’s taste are so different. I’ll just give you a few that I think have the message we are looking for, you can then find your own songs. Two possible websites you may be interested in when it comes to music besides amazon.com are www.greenbookofsongs.com this is an online service that categories songs by subject matter. I’ve not tried it so I don’t know how useful it is, but if you’re having trouble coming up with songs you might check it out. The other sight I like a lot is www.songmeanings.com . This website will give you the lyrics to a song as well as what other people think the song is about. It also has a link to a satellite radio website that if your lucky you can actually hear the entire song. So here are few I use.
“True Colors” Phil Collins - This song pretty much says everything I’m trying
to say in this book. Women must step out of the matrix and begin displaying
their true nature.
"Crazyboutya"
Dave Barnes - This is another song that gets everything right. Listen to the words
carefully and you will love its message.
“You’ll be in my Heart” Phil Collins - This song just touches me, and that is what you
are looking for, songs that bring out the emotion in you.
"Higher Love" Steve Windwood - This is
what we are striving for higher love.
“When I See You Smile” Bad English - This song is about what a woman’s smile can do for us as men. Very joyful song.
“Because You Loved Me” Celine Dion - Good song for both men and women.
“True Companion” Marc Cohn - Again good song for both men and women. The words are not perfect, but I still think it is worthy to be listed here.
“Bring Me to Life” Evanescence - This song should be every man’s anthem. We as men have the capability of bringing a woman’s true beauty to the surface if we would only value that beauty. Powerful song in my opinion.
“Who We Are” Hope Partlow - Every High School girl, no every Junior High girl should listen to this song every day. There is not another song I have come across that says it better than this. Another very powerful song.
“Forever” Ben Harper - This is a very poetic song about fidelity.
There are a lot of song that are just positive songs. We need to be putting positive influences into our life. Music is a powerful thing when it come to this because of the emotion it also brings with it. So be very careful about the messages you are getting in the music you are listening to as well as the images. This is a rather short list but hopefully it is enough to get you started.
